Do you feel like you live a dual life? Do you feel frustrated, angry, guilty, and upset that you can’t take action upon the things you know aren’t good for you?

If a friend were to call you, and tell you they are bitterly unhappy in their relationship, have tried counselling and lots of different things to make it work, but years have past and it’s only getting worse. Would you advise the person to stay, or leave?

You would most likely recommend they leave.

Why then can’t we leave situations we know aren’t good for us?

Each human being has a primordial brain. Unfortunately, although we live in modern times, the primordial brain is still predominant; most of us are wired in a primordial way. We are wired for safety. We are wired to not “rock the boat” in case we are excommunicated from the herd of other humans and left on the savannah to survive.

This neural wiring keeps us afraid, small, and stuck.

The reason you struggle to leave situations you know aren’t good for you is because your primordial brain tells you it’s unsafe to do so, and that there will be no support or help. And you will be criticised or punished for it. And that, it’s better to stay where you are than strike out on your own.

The primordial brain chooses same-ness (no matter how dysfunctional) over new-ness.

See? This is why it’s often difficult to leave when we know we should.

The remedy:

— Understand you have a primordial brain. All humans have. We were born with one. Don’t make yourself bad for not being able to take action on what you know you should do.

— Start to re-wire your brain and energy system.

— As you begin to move away from primordial-brain-thinking into higher-conscious-thinking you will naturally make choices, without fear or effort involved, that are good and wholesome for you.

In this email series, I will share with you how you can begin to rewire your brain and energy system, and completely revolutionize your life.

Stay tuned for the next email!